Marriage Problems Myths
Dr. Sara Schwarzbaum
Couples Counseling Associates, Chicago, IL
Couples Counseling Associates website:
www.couples-counseling-now.com
Popular myths can be very powerful, can affect a relationship profoundly, and create marriage problems because of underlying beliefs.
Myth # 1 Disagreement can lead to the break up of a relationship.
In fact, disagreements and anger can be healthy for a couple in the long run. Research shows that healthy disagreements in a relationship can help air out differences and is a sign of an equal partnership. Contempt and defensiveness are more damaging to a relationship than anger.
Myth #2 The presence of criticism and complaints indicates that a relationship is close to the end.
Underneath criticism lies a request. A good couples counselor can help turn criticism and complaints into requests.
Myth # 3 It is not possible to recover from infidelity.
Research shows that over half of the couples who seek the help of a qualified couples counselor can recover from infidelity and preserve the relationship.
Myth # 4 The most important aspect of intimacy is sexual intimacy.
There are several types of intimacy, sexual intimacy is just one of them. Intimacy means deep knowledge of your partner.
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