Do You Have a Relationship You Treasure?
Odds are you have, or want to have, a relationship you treasure from the very depths of your being. You value it more than double chocolate ice cream, more than your baseball team winning the pennant, more than winning the lottery, more than _____________ (you fill in the blank.) You'd give anything, do anything, to protect the relationship you treasure. It's worth that much to you.
Do you have relationship hot spots that pop up and seem too hard or even impossible to fix? Do they hold you back from experiencing the total intimacy you want in your relationship? Sure you do. I do, too. We're human, so it's not only normal, but also inevitable. When we deal with them effectively, the vast majority of the time relationship problems are solvable. And I want to help you solve them.
My Passion
I am head-over-heals passionate about healthy relationships. I want every marriage to succeed. I don't mean limp along or be good enough. I mean SUCCEED. I want every significant relationship to be fulfilling to both people involved. I don't know how to stop myself. I eat, breathe, and sleep this stuff.
My Dilemma
But I face several problems:
There are only 24 hours in a day.
I can see only so many clients in my office every week.
I can teach only so many relationship workshops every year.
I am limited by time and location for how many people I can help face-to-face.
Besides that, it's important I have time to nurture my personal relationships, too.
The Solution Benefits You
One of the sensible people in my life recommended I do something to eliminate the limitations I listed above. He suggested I start knocking down barriers to reaching unlimited numbers of people with proven effective healthy relationship tools.
"Start by writing an e-book. Share the great tips you know that work to help married couples and others have healthier relationships." And I did! I am excited to offer you my tips e-book 30 Tips to Healthier Relationships: A guide for couples and anyone else who has relationships to treasure.
Get your copy by instant download now for only $19.97. Add to Cart
Umm... what is an e-book?
An e-book is an "electronic book." You download it on to your computer, print it if you want, or read it on your monitor or e-reader (Kindle, iPad, etc.) It is easy to download from the Internet. If you aren't sure you can do it, just ask a kid for help.
Let Me Tell You More
I really do have this thing about healthy relationships. I believe when two people get along well together, unless they live in Antarctica or some other unpopulated area, they can't help but pass on relationship help to other people. Then those people pass it on to more people who pass it on... you get the picture. That gives us the potential for healthier families, healthier neighborhoods, healthier communities, all the way up to a healthier world. Without a doubt, I want to be a part of that kind of relationship health explosion.
"It's easy to go on automatic pilot in relationships, taking them for granted or falling into unhelpful patterns. Jenny Olin's 30 Tips to Healthier Relationships can serve as a wakeup call, renewing your relationship and making it much better each day. Spend one month using these simple but useful tips and you'll find out for yourself."
- Bill O'Hanlon, LMFT, author, Love is a Verb and Rewriting Love Stories
Now some of you have already been in on this. You've received some of these tips. They've been rewritten and improved. And now they total 30 in number. Plus, I added pictures because I like books with illustrations in them.
When I sent out an e-mail asking what tips you wanted in the book, I received ideas I included in this full version. Thank you to everyone who submitted a suggestion!
WIIFM? (What's in if for Me?)
Some of the tips you will get with your copy of my book are:
Share appreciations every day about the good you see in others.
Treat another's concerns seriously.
Being right isn't a priority in personal relationships.
Avoid blaming.
Be a successful mind reader.
Spend quality time together.
Take a break from your relationship problem.
Seek solutions to relationship conflict sooner instead of later.
Have hope.
These Tips Work
I've been successfully teaching these tips to couples for a long time, and seeing these tools help restore hurting relationships to health. I use these tips in my personal life, too. They work for others; why not for you?
"Jenny Olin's new book 30 Tips to Healthier Relationships, is a must read. It is concise, informative and an easy read. As a pastor I consider it required reading for couples preparing for marriage and others wanting to treasure the relationships they share.
"Jenny flavors her everyday, down-to-earth tips with doable and common sense solutions. The accompanying workbook serves as an invaluable tool to keep you planning and monitoring your daily success.
"I can identify with the author's closing remark, 'My passion is creating and keeping healthy relationships. I invite you to make it yours.'"
Reverend Bonita Bates - 38 years creating and keeping a healthy relationship with husband, Rick
Are you ready for a renewed and healthier relationship? Remember, the majority of relationship problems are solvable.
Are you saying to yourself "my partner won't participate with me"? This may surprise you: you can take specific, concrete action to have a great relationship, even if your spouse or other significant person isn't actively participating.
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There's More...
Do you want an additional tool that can increase your success in using these 30 Tips? A companion Workbook is available in a downloadable Template.
This Workbook can increase your success in using your 30 Tips. It offers you a way to plan your goals, track your progress, and evaluate your outcome. A filled-in sample worksheet for the first goal provides you with an example of how to use this Workbook.
It is available for only $6.95.
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Act now
Oh, I almost forgot to tell you. You have my money-back guarantee. If you don't like the Tips book, let me know by by 60 days of purchase and I'll refund your money. (I don't think you will want a refund, though. I think you'll discover you would pay far more than 67 cents for a healthy relationship tip.) How can you lose with a deal like that?
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To your relationship health,
Jenny Olin, LCSW
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